Our words are powerful tools and it depends upon how we communicate and understood. We communicate with our eyes and facial expressions as well.

Ephesians 4:29

29Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

1 Thessalonians 5:23

23And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

There are 3 essentials for each person to be whole;

*Sense of belonging – through belonging we feel acceptance

Romans 8:14-16

14For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.

15For you have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but you have received the Spirit of adoption, by which we cry, Abba, Father.

16The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:

Until you get a sense of belonging to GOD you will never be whole person.

Romans 5:6-8

*Sense of worthiness – through worthiness we feel love

6For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

7For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet perhaps for a good man some would even dare to die.

8But God commends his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

*Sense of competency – through competency we feel secure

Ephesians 3:20

20Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,

We belong to GOD, it is not His will that any of us perish. We all want to feel we belong, we are worthy and we are competent.