LORD Jesus said love one another. Accept one another, care for another, comfort one another, be devoted to one another, encourage one another, be patient with one another, be subject to one another, serve one another.

13, 14, 15 chapters of John is about LORD Jesus call for love one another.

GOD does not want His children being abused. A lot of people are verbally and emotionally abused. You cannot cover abuses. Discipline is directed toward a person for a specific behaviour. Abuse is like a volcano the hostility, anger, resentment whatever might be comes out towards another person which is nothing to do with the person behaviour. It is something inside of them looking for an excuse to express itself on someone else. Discipline has the best behaviour for the person in mind whereas abuse is getting something out that is on the inside. Discipline is routed in love.

Deal with abuse.

*Seek GOD’s guidance, pray and make sure you get GOD’s Word of instruction regarding what you should do.

*Pray for the abuser. Pray for GOD to show you what motivates that person to act the way they act, why they mistreat someone and try to injure them. When resentment, hostility, anger is inside of someone unless that person deals with it he will mistreat someone else. They express those feelings towards the other person, they hurt people. It is devastating to people.

*GOD will never initiate any kind of abuse. GOD will use the abuse for our advantage but He is never the instigator of any kind of abuse. He knows us by our name.

LORD says “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” John 10:10.

Loving Father will never have anything to do with abuse of one of His children. That is not purpose, plan or will of GOD.

*Forgive the abuser.

*Forgive the one who allowed the abuse.

*Choose the truth about yourself.

*Open yourself up to healing.

*Refuse to retaliate. LORD takes over the discipline on the other person life.

*choose to move forward in your life. LORD will use all the hurt and pains and He will make you blessing to someone else.

*Look for something good to come about of that abuse.

GOD loves you because of who you are. The healing found in LORD Jesus Christ.